1.   Choose someone with a open schedule:
Select a maid/ matron of honor who has the time to engulf herself into your wedding.
2.   Choose someone who has the most in common with you:Â
Brides should choose some on with similar style, taste, and personality. There is no fun in choosing a maid of honor who will turn her nose up on your decisions you make. Plus, keep in mind that the maid of honor leads the bridal party in planning your pre-wedding events. She will be taking the lead and making decisions about your bridal shower or bachelorette party. Make sure there is someone leading them who knows your sense of style.
3.   Choose someone who likes to be a leader:
It’s important to select a maid/matron of honor who is not afraid to lead and to enforce the brides’ wishes. Pushovers will not work.  Choose someone who can create timelines and schedules, disseminate important information, diffuse issues, sensitive to the feelings of others and know how’s to get results.
4.   Choose someone who is financially capable:
Finances should not be the only factor considered when choosing a maid of honor, but it is a very important factor. You don’t want to choose someone who will cost you money. Its important to choose a friend who can cut costs, create a budget and rally the bridal party to help finance some events, and who can pay or help with the pre- wedding events. You also don’t want to choose a MOH that is not financially capable and burden them with additional finances they cant afford to pay. Â5.    Choose someone who is trust worthy:
There are many duties expected of the MOH, be sure to select someone who you can count on to get their dress, keep bridesmaids in line, and show up to all events on time.   Â6.   Choose someone who is friendly and welcoming:
Since the MOH will be dealing with your other friends who she may not know, it is important to choose a very friendly person who will not mind making new friends.